One of My Favorites

I like sweet potato fries. Okay, let me rephrase that. I adore well-made sweet potato fries. I’m disappointed when I see “substitute sweet potato fries $.50” on a menu only to receive a tasteless cardboard substitute. *sigh* That’s happened a depressing amount of times, which leads me to think that I put too much merit into the most mundane of things. But, seriously, if you’ve had flavorful, slightly crispy ones (with an awesome dipping sauce, optional), you can see why I absolutely beam when I see that little menu substitution in the first place. My husband, and for that matter anyone else eating alongside me, generally get a kick out of it. Kind of like watching a kid on Christmas.

While homemade SP fries can’t seem to compare, texture-wise, to those you find in a restaurant, I still think they’re worth making. Firstly, you know that the only ingredient on its list is “sweet potato” (with the exception of the olive oil and seasonings you choose). The nutrient factor seems higher when you know you’ve cut an honest to goodness hunk of vegetable down to size. Secondly, you can control whether it’s fried or baked. Of course, in our household they’re always baked. a) I’ve got a husband with a leaning toward high cholesterol and b) I’m not big into frying stuff, mostly because I’m incredibly lazy and don’t want to deal with the disposal of the used oil. Thirdly, and finally, comes the flavor. Even when they come out soggy, it turns out to be a nicely seasoned roasted sweet potato wedge that can still be used as a tasty side to any meal. Even when it’s yucked up, it’s worth it.

So, I don’t have a tried-and-true way to make fool-proof sweet potato fries. Bummer. BUT, I’ve done enough Googling of a million or so recipes and found the common good in all of them. Here’s what I made tonight…

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Sweet Potato Fries

One large sweet potato
Olive oil
Salt
Pepper
Chili powder
Cumin powder
(Optional: Mrs. Dash)

Preheat the oven to 450 degrees. Yes, seriously, that hot.

Carefully cut the sweet potato into long slices (I cut mine in half so they weren’t as long), around 1/2″ thick. Toss in olive oil (enough to coat each side but not enough to “swim”) on a large, foil-lined baking sheet. Season with the above seasonings. (I did 2 versions – half of the sheet with the 4 seasonings, the other half with just pepper and low-sodium Mrs. Dash. Why don’t you guess who’s eating the Mrs. Dash side.) Bake for around 20 minutes (don’t open the door!), then flip each wedge before baking for another 15-20 minutes.

Allow to rest. Serve with ketchup, ranch dressing or the below dipping sauce.

Today, I took a cue from Giada and tried a mayo-based dipping sauce. Of course, I tweaked her recipe a bit.

Mayo Dipping Sauce
Large scoop of mayo (1/4 cup, or however much you’d like to make); I used organic mayo
One garlic clove, minced
Spritz of lemon
Seasonings (in this case, cumin & chili powder)

Mix all ingredients together. (I did this in a small mason jar.) Refrigerate a minimum of 30 minutes for flavors to meld. You may also just create a simple dip, leaving seasonings out – it’ll taste like a garlic aoili.

Now, go forth and enjoy like a cat writhing around and stretching out in all his cute glory. That is, if you’re into sweet potatoes…and who isn’t? πŸ˜‰

One of My Favorites

I like sweet potato fries. Okay, let me rephrase that. I adore well-made sweet potato fries. I’m disappointed when I see “substitute sweet potato fries $.50” on a menu only to receive a tasteless cardboard substitute. *sigh* That’s happened a depressing amount of times, which leads me to think that I put too much merit into the most mundane of things. But, seriously, if you’ve had flavorful, slightly crispy ones (with an awesome dipping sauce, optional), you can see why I absolutely beam when I see that little menu substitution in the first place. My husband, and for that matter anyone else eating alongside me, generally get a kick out of it. Kind of like watching a kid on Christmas.

While homemade SP fries can’t seem to compare, texture-wise, to those you find in a restaurant, I still think they’re worth making. Firstly, you know that the only ingredient on its list is “sweet potato” (with the exception of the olive oil and seasonings you choose). The nutrient factor seems higher when you know you’ve cut an honest to goodness hunk of vegetable down to size. Secondly, you can control whether it’s fried or baked. Of course, in our household they’re always baked. a) I’ve got a husband with a leaning toward high cholesterol and b) I’m not big into frying stuff, mostly because I’m incredibly lazy and don’t want to deal with the disposal of the used oil. Thirdly, and finally, comes the flavor. Even when they come out soggy, it turns out to be a nicely seasoned roasted sweet potato wedge that can still be used as a tasty side to any meal. Even when it’s yucked up, it’s worth it.

So, I don’t have a tried-and-true way to make fool-proof sweet potato fries. Bummer. BUT, I’ve done enough Googling of a million or so recipes and found the common good in all of them. Here’s what I made tonight…

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com

Sweet Potato Fries
One large sweet potato
Olive oil
Salt
Pepper
Chili powder
Cumin powder
(Optional: Mrs. Dash)

Preheat the oven to 450 degrees. Yes, seriously, that hot.

Carefully cut the sweet potato into long slices (I cut mine in half so they weren’t as long), around 1/2″ thick. Toss in olive oil (enough to coat each side but not enough to “swim”) on a large, foil-lined baking sheet. Season with the above seasonings. (I did 2 versions – half of the sheet with the 4 seasonings, the other half with just pepper and low-sodium Mrs. Dash. Why don’t you guess who’s eating the Mrs. Dash side.) Bake for around 20 minutes (don’t open the door!), then flip each wedge before baking for another 15-20 minutes.

Allow to rest. Serve with ketchup, ranch dressing or the below dipping sauce.

Today, I took a cue from Giada and tried a mayo-based dipping sauce. Of course, I tweaked her recipe a bit.

Mayo Dipping Sauce
Large scoop of mayo (1/4 cup, or however much you’d like to make); I used organic mayo
One garlic clove, minced
Spritz of lemon
Seasonings (in this case, cumin & chili powder)

Mix all ingredients together. (I did this in a small mason jar.) Refrigerate a minimum of 30 minutes for flavors to meld. You may also just create a simple dip, leaving seasonings out – it’ll taste like a garlic aoili.

Now, go forth and enjoy like a cat writhing around and stretching out in all his cute glory. That is, if you’re into sweet potatoes…and who isn’t? πŸ˜‰

Planning is Half the Battle

I’ve been supercharged to work on the bathroom lately. I’m not sure where the sudden burst of energy has come from…but my guess is that it’s partially the all-consuming guilt of watching how much hard work the hubby has been putting in whenever he can find the energy and brain power to head to the basement and sweat-it-out. (Mind you, he’s been scrubbing, Cloroxing, Dryloking, painting, and moving a kazillion personal items that should probably just be living in a dumpster. It’s not an exercise routine, but it could be.) It puts me to serious shame that I look at my bathroom ceiling thinking, “Well, I could use a tad more spackle on that angle…” And it’s true. It does need more spackle. Otherwise, the ceiling’s looking mighty fine, compared to what it USED to look like. Here’s a reminder of the “before” (no “afters” quite yet):

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com


But, that’s pretty much it. Our floors are the same. Our walls are staring at us in all their ugly glory (although, one day I came up with the bright idea of chiseling away at some of the how-many-colors-of-brown-exist-anyway mini-tiles, only to finally come to the realization that I’ll have to find a better way…ie, admitting defeat). The shower is clean, even if it doesn’t totally LOOK it…but has tears in the stupid liner that the smartiepants previous owners put up that will inevitably grow into a bigger problem. And I’m re-thinking the pedestal sink, depending upon how long we live in the ol’ Crooked House.

So, while I was waiting around for Dave to finish some stuff up before fun, relaxed Sunday errand-running, I grabbed the measuring tape and started, well, using it. The backside of a bill envelope later, I had measurements for flooring, wainscoting, and if I was better at math, the tub surround. Just having this information at my fingertips made me feel empowered.

Here’s the revised plan, yo:

Flooring – Don’t cry on me, now, but given the weird unevenness of our floor and, in all honesty, the cost factor, I’ve pretty much set my mind on using peel-and-stick tiles. *gasp* I know. If this was going to be our “forever home”, I’d get some self-leveling stuff and roll up my sleeves, but sometimes it feels like the more money we put into the house, we might as well just flush it down the toilet. While it’d be nice to make money on the house (in theory, we should…it SHOULD be a given), after hearing what some of the NON-FORECLOSED houses in our area are getting lately, it’ll take a heck of a lot of faith and patience to make much. *sigh* But, we shall see!

Anyhoo, I’ve done some online snooping as to the tiles I’d like, but it’ll be way simpler to just go to Lowe’s (or Home Depot, which is half an hour away) and pick out what’s available that I like. I’m on the fence between the 12″x12″ or the 18″x18″. I’m kind of preferring the idea of what I can do (it’s a secret, y’all can’t know ;-D) with the 18-inchers, but honestly…I suck at math and don’t quite know if I can figure out how much of it I’ll need for our square footage. Yeah, I’m THAT bad at math. Either way, I want it as natural-looking as possible, with a light brown theme. (The whole room is going to be a LOT brighter – no deep browns.)

Oh, and let’s use this moment as a reminder that I totally used peel-and-stick when working on our cellarway about a year ago this time (wow, a year already?) and they’ve held up wonderfully.

Here’s proof that it can totally not suck:

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com


Walls – Sure, there’s paint. I’ve already got a swatch picked for the upper walls. But, to handle the disgusting mosaic tile situation, I’m using another sort of “cover-up” solution. This isn’t to say that it’s an easy-way-out. It’ll still involve prying off the current woodwork (then priming and painting it white before reinstalling it…and touching it up), lots of “interesting” measuring and cutting, and, of course, quite possibly moving the sink and uninstalling the toilet. All this simply before using some awesome construction adhesive (which is specifically formulated for bathrooms, woohoo) to adhere some white wainscoting to the tiles. We also need to add some new trim to the top (since it doesn’t currently have any there). Whew, that’ll finish off the walls, though, and make a huge difference. Oh, and the fact that, if my math serves correctly, we’ll just need one piece of wainscoting, which costs less than $20. So, between that, probably a quart of the wall paint (don’t have much to paint, mind you) and some trim…can we assume it’ll be less than $50 project? Regardless, it’ll have a huge impact.

Shower area – The idea here is to completely rip down the current shower liner that is torn in various spots (I think because they either didn’t adhere it correctly OR they didn’t have proper cement board), amend whatever the situation may BE behind the stuff (*shivers* at the thought of purchasing and installing cement board…not sure why), then tile it with subway tile. Perhaps a $300+ job? Then, for an additional $50, I’d like the tub to be refinished, probably using this stuff. All of the above, my stepfather has done at my parents’ house, so at least we have someone who’s quite experienced with it (who’s also hopefully willing to help!!!). But, I’m not so sure that I can help with ANY of the above stuff. It might be “man’s work”, and I may have to beg or bribe my dear husband to do it with Jerry. πŸ™‚

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com
See the tan tub? It has a pink undertone, and needs a facelift.
This picture somehow makes it look GOOD. It’s. Really. Not.


And now for some inspiration after that grossness…

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com
Dude, this is from a loft complex in Boston. Jealous much!
Ours wouldn’t have the clear sliding door…or the tile wrapping around.


Vanity – This one’s a complete 50/50 decision right now. While I’d like the storage of a new vanity, between the cost and space that one would take up, I’m not sure how I feel. I think Dave and I have both decided that, since we’ll hopefully have a family, and with his awesomesauce new shaving set-up, we’ll need more bathroom space than a pedestal sink allows for. So, if we can find a nice, small white one for a low price, we may have to think about going for it. Until then, it’s not a must-have like the other stuff.

Open shelving – Pretty self explanatory, this refers to the shelves to the left of the shower that used to have doors on them (very ugly 1970s doors). They need to be painted, inside and out, and I’m thinking they need some simple, modern shelf paper. Or not. Oh, and the spots where the hinges used to live need to be filled. Otherwise, I’m kind of fine with leaving it all as white and just using the storage more wisely, thankyouverymuch.

Here’s my “open shelving inspiration” from my very favorite blogging couple:

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com


So, there you have it. Wow, after writing it out, things seem a tad more daunting. But, oh well, I’ve got some “winter time” to work on this stuff, don’t I? Between this and trying to rid myself of LOTS of clothes, I should be able to keep myself busy.

Planning is Half the Battle

I’ve been supercharged to work on the bathroom lately. I’m not sure where the sudden burst of energy has come from…but my guess is that it’s partially the all-consuming guilt of watching how much hard work the hubby has been putting in whenever he can find the energy and brain power to head to the basement and sweat-it-out. (Mind you, he’s been scrubbing, Cloroxing, Dryloking, painting, and moving a kazillion personal items that should probably just be living in a dumpster. It’s not an exercise routine, but it could be.) It puts me to serious shame that I look at my bathroom ceiling thinking, “Well, I could use a tad more spackle on that angle…” And it’s true. It does need more spackle. Otherwise, the ceiling’s looking mighty fine, compared to what it USED to look like. Here’s a reminder of the “before” (no “afters” quite yet):

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com
One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.comBut, that’s pretty much it. Our floors are the same. Our walls are staring at us in all their ugly glory (although, one day I came up with the bright idea of chiseling away at some of the how-many-colors-of-brown-exist-anyway mini-tiles, only to finally come to the realization that I’ll have to find a better way…ie, admitting defeat). The shower is clean, even if it doesn’t totally LOOK it…but has tears in the stupid liner that the smartiepants previous owners put up that will inevitably grow into a bigger problem. And I’m re-thinking the pedestal sink, depending upon how long we live in the ol’ Crooked House.

So, while I was waiting around for Dave to finish some stuff up before fun, relaxed Sunday errand-running, I grabbed the measuring tape and started, well, using it. The backside of a bill envelope later, I had measurements for flooring, wainscoting, and if I was better at math, the tub surround. Just having this information at my fingertips made me feel empowered.

Here’s the revised plan, yo:

Flooring – Don’t cry on me, now, but given the weird unevenness of our floor and, in all honesty, the cost factor, I’ve pretty much set my mind on using peel-and-stick tiles. *gasp* I know. If this was going to be our “forever home”, I’d get some self-leveling stuff and roll up my sleeves, but sometimes it feels like the more money we put into the house, we might as well just flush it down the toilet. While it’d be nice to make money on the house (in theory, we should…it SHOULD be a given), after hearing what some of the NON-FORECLOSED houses in our area are getting lately, it’ll take a heck of a lot of faith and patience to make much. *sigh* But, we shall see!

Anyhoo, I’ve done some online snooping as to the tiles I’d like, but it’ll be way simpler to just go to Lowe’s (or Home Depot, which is half an hour away) and pick out what’s available that I like. I’m on the fence between the 12″x12″ or the 18″x18″. I’m kind of preferring the idea of what I can do (it’s a secret, y’all can’t know ;-D) with the 18-inchers, but honestly…I suck at math and don’t quite know if I can figure out how much of it I’ll need for our square footage. Yeah, I’m THAT bad at math. Either way, I want it as natural-looking as possible, with a light brown theme. (The whole room is going to be a LOT brighter – no deep browns.)

Oh, and let’s use this moment as a reminder that I totally used peel-and-stick when working on our cellarway about a year ago this time (wow, a year already?) and they’ve held up wonderfully.

Here’s proof that it can totally not suck:

Walls – Sure, there’s paint. I’ve already got a swatch picked for the upper walls. But, to handle the disgusting mosaic tile situation, I’m using another sort of “cover-up” solution. This isn’t to say that it’s an easy-way-out. It’ll still involve prying off the current woodwork (then priming and painting it white before reinstalling it…and touching it up), lots of “interesting” measuring and cutting, and, of course, quite possibly moving the sink and uninstalling the toilet. All this simply before using some awesome construction adhesive (which is specifically formulated for bathrooms, woohoo) to adhere some white wainscoting to the tiles. We also need to add some new trim to the top (since it doesn’t currently have any there). Whew, that’ll finish off the walls, though, and make a huge difference. Oh, and the fact that, if my math serves correctly, we’ll just need one piece of wainscoting, which costs less than $20. So, between that, probably a quart of the wall paint (don’t have much to paint, mind you) and some trim…can we assume it’ll be less than $50 project? Regardless, it’ll have a huge impact.

Shower area – The idea here is to completely rip down the current shower liner that is torn in various spots (I think because they either didn’t adhere it correctly OR they didn’t have proper cement board), amend whatever the situation may BE behind the stuff (*shivers* at the thought of purchasing and installing cement board…not sure why), then tile it with subway tile. Perhaps a $300+ job? Then, for an additional $50, I’d like the tub to be refinished, probably using this stuff. All of the above, my stepfather has done at my parents’ house, so at least we have someone who’s quite experienced with it (who’s also hopefully willing to help!!!). But, I’m not so sure that I can help with ANY of the above stuff. It might be “man’s work”, and I may have to beg or bribe my dear husband to do it with Jerry. πŸ™‚

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.comSee the tan tub? It has a pink undertone, and needs a facelift.
This picture somehow makes it look GOOD. It’s. Really. Not.

And now for some inspiration after that grossness…

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com
Dude, this is from a loft complex in Boston. Jealous much!
Ours wouldn’t have the clear sliding door…or the tile wrapping around.

Vanity – This one’s a complete 50/50 decision right now. While I’d like the storage of a new vanity, between the cost and space that one would take up, I’m not sure how I feel. I think Dave and I have both decided that, since we’ll hopefully have a family, and with his awesomesauce new shaving set-up, we’ll need more bathroom space than a pedestal sink allows for. So, if we can find a nice, small white one for a low price, we may have to think about going for it. Until then, it’s not a must-have like the other stuff.

Open shelving – Pretty self explanatory, this refers to the shelves to the left of the shower that used to have doors on them (very ugly 1970s doors). They need to be painted, inside and out, and I’m thinking they need some simple, modern shelf paper. Or not. Oh, and the spots where the hinges used to live need to be filled. Otherwise, I’m kind of fine with leaving it all as white and just using the storage more wisely, thankyouverymuch.

Here’s my “open shelving inspiration” from my very favorite blogging couple:

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com
One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.com

So, there you have it. Wow, after writing it out, things seem a tad more daunting. But, oh well, I’ve got some “winter time” to work on this stuff, don’t I? Between this and trying to rid myself of LOTS of clothes, I should be able to keep myself busy.

They’re Not Resolutions

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This year, we’re not making resolutions in the ol’ cat folk homestead. We’re not usually into the tradition of saying “I resolve to…*fill in the blank*”. I think it’s the inevitable wop-wop sound of defeat when we get too busy to, say, watch what we’re eating or be the kindest human we can possibly be or find time for our dreams. It’s as if you’ve failed, and can’t go back and try again until the NEXT new year. Silly. Humans make mistakes – hence why we need resolutions in the first place, I suppose. And if you’re one of the millions of people who do make them, seriously, good for you! It’s neat to be part of the tradition. Heck, we even did a *version* of making resolutions last year…kind of.

Instead, we use this time of year to essentially recharge and refocus, as do many. We quietly reflect upon the wonderful positivity of the past and vow to appreciate such luck in the future. We consider the negatives that have befallen us and analyze whether they were issues that we can either a) avoid altogether or b) handle with more grace in the future. It can be wonderful…but can also be a very melancholy time. Why the heck is that, anyway?

Dave recently, mere moments after we both agreed NOT to make resolutions, announced a personal something that he’d like to work on in 2012. Being ever the kind, sweet wife, I immediately pounced on him with, “Didn’t you just say ‘no resolutions’?” (I know, I know. He’s so lucky to have me, isn’t he?) He then went on to, in his own eloquent way, define resolutions – I’m paraphrasing here, and please chastise me if I get this wrong, honey – as a certain goal. For example, “This year, I’m going to lose weight.” “In 2012, I’m going to eat more vegetables.” “I’m going to quit smoking, once and for all.” All admirable goals. But, Dave suggested, and I agreed, that this time of year shouldn’t be about goals. It should be more about paths and objectives.

Sure, objectives can be considered the same thing as goals, but we’re redefining it a bit for our purposes – any objections? *ba da crash* I guess I see it as Resolution Lite. (Sorry, I hate the marketing scheme of misspelling words!) If I don’t lose 15 pounds exactly, but instead focus on healthy weight loss, even with the occasional fall off the horse, it’s easier to get back on. Like getting on a miniature pony instead of a Clydesdale. Okay, now I’ve confused you. Ignore that paragraph if you are.

All I’m saying is that I’d much rather focus on getting on the right path to bettering myself versus a certain goal. And, believe me, I know this isn’t for everyone. Some folks truly need an ultimate goal in order to set better boundaries and see it through to the end – but me? I disappoint too easily, and get very down on myself. By remembering that life’s a series of journeys, I can decide to try a path toward a better life and feel a lot better about a smoothly sloping road rather than a bumpy ride that makes you fall on your butt 18 times in a row.

So, how’s about some specifics? My biggest interest for 2012 involves…drumroll, please…FINANCES!

Crickets chirp.

Wow. Seriously, I know it’s boring, but you didn’t have to be so quiet about it. πŸ˜› I know, you probably thought that I was going to say that it involved diet and eating naturally and going to the farmers market and…yeah, we’ve already been working on all those things, and that path has already been tread by the fam. And guess what! We’re STILL traveling on it. That’s just one of the many paths that we’ll continue upon (much like finding other ways to be greener, among others) that will add excitement to the journey. So hold your horses. πŸ˜‰

I’ve read from many of my blog wanderings that there are tons of folks who have become debt-free. While, again, we don’t need to make a measurable goal out of our resolutions, I ultimately know that it simply wouldn’t be realistic to say, “We’ll be debt-free by the end of 2012.” Between what Dave and I are both paying off, and the incomes that we bring in (our cost of living is low, but so is the local income level), it just isn’t plausible. Heck, we may be able to do the math to determine WHEN we COULD be debt-free…that’d be neat. But, it’s not a goal. I just want to get on top of my darn “what’s coming in, what’s going out” ratios – THEN analyze my “what’s getting saved and for what” junk. And, of course, all of this ties back to our “what do we really, truly need around this joint” numbers. So, when I say finances, it does actually get me more excited than, y’know, crickets chirping. And, hopefully, that’s a good sign!

What else for 2012? A lot of it has to do with what I’m forced to think about every time I look around the house – that being, when this place was built in 1925, folks didn’t have 8+ winter jackets of 5 different pairs of boots (EACH!). Plus, I’m young! I don’t deserve some of the stuff I DO have! It just needs to be toned down (not that I’m not keeping the awesome stuff – I’m truly appreciative, it just needs to find a home within our space). This involves purging clothes. Hopefully sifting through (and getting rid of) anything we simply don’t need. Another garage sale is in the works (our poor, stuffed basement). All that fun stuff. πŸ™‚

Ultimately, if you want to put a label on the year (again, not a resolution, ‘cuz it’s uber-vague…that’s how I like ’em ;-)), I’d call it SIMPLIFY. There are lots of ways to do it. I’ve looked at magazines, seen books, and even noticed a plethora of web sites and blogs that discuss it…then I even saw our friend Cara share this on Facebook! It was like an omen. I want to do a tad more reading up before I decide “Okay, do I throw out 50 things…100…365?” or determine “There’s a better way that doesn’t involve such quantitative results-based actions”. (That’s my one impressive sentence of the year – enjoy it.) But, either way, I hope to write ’bout it, so you’ll get to see all the crap I have. Lucky you. πŸ™‚

So, what about you? Are you making a resolution this year? Are you avoiding them altogether and just living life? Either way, do share – I love it, either way, when folks make up their minds to live in a more positive way. It forces my natural pessimism to take a momentary hike.

***By the way, I just noticed that, while I had completely STARTED a follow-up post actually meant to show the collages (which, yes, I completed in record time and even took pictures of…and, yes, I made more than one) which I never ended up finishing and posting! It’s that whole “insert picture here” thing that sometimes holds me up. My bad, I suck. I’ll be working on that. Sorry!***

They’re Not Resolutions

One of My Favorites - image  on https://megactsout.comThis year, we’re not making resolutions in the ol’ cat folk homestead. We’re not usually into the tradition of saying “I resolve to…*fill in the blank*”. I think it’s the inevitable wop-wop sound of defeat when we get too busy to, say, watch what we’re eating or be the kindest human we can possibly be or find time for our dreams. It’s as if you’ve failed, and can’t go back and try again until the NEXT new year. Silly. Humans make mistakes – hence why we need resolutions in the first place, I suppose. And if you’re one of the millions of people who do make them, seriously, good for you! It’s neat to be part of the tradition. Heck, we even did a *version* of making resolutions last year…kind of.

Instead, we use this time of year to essentially recharge and refocus, as do many. We quietly reflect upon the wonderful positivity of the past and vow to appreciate such luck in the future. We consider the negatives that have befallen us and analyze whether they were issues that we can either a) avoid altogether or b) handle with more grace in the future. It can be wonderful…but can also be a very melancholy time. Why the heck is that, anyway?

Dave recently, mere moments after we both agreed NOT to make resolutions, announced a personal something that he’d like to work on in 2012. Being ever the kind, sweet wife, I immediately pounced on him with, “Didn’t you just say ‘no resolutions’?” (I know, I know. He’s so lucky to have me, isn’t he?) He then went on to, in his own eloquent way, define resolutions – I’m paraphrasing here, and please chastise me if I get this wrong, honey – as a certain goal. For example, “This year, I’m going to lose weight.” “In 2012, I’m going to eat more vegetables.” “I’m going to quit smoking, once and for all.” All admirable goals. But, Dave suggested, and I agreed, that this time of year shouldn’t be about goals. It should be more about paths and objectives.

Sure, objectives can be considered the same thing as goals, but we’re redefining it a bit for our purposes – any objections? *ba da crash* I guess I see it as Resolution Lite. (Sorry, I hate the marketing scheme of misspelling words!) If I don’t lose 15 pounds exactly, but instead focus on healthy weight loss, even with the occasional fall off the horse, it’s easier to get back on. Like getting on a miniature pony instead of a Clydesdale. Okay, now I’ve confused you. Ignore that paragraph if you are.

All I’m saying is that I’d much rather focus on getting on the right path to bettering myself versus a certain goal. And, believe me, I know this isn’t for everyone. Some folks truly need an ultimate goal in order to set better boundaries and see it through to the end – but me? I disappoint too easily, and get very down on myself. By remembering that life’s a series of journeys, I can decide to try a path toward a better life and feel a lot better about a smoothly sloping road rather than a bumpy ride that makes you fall on your butt 18 times in a row.

So, how’s about some specifics? My biggest interest for 2012 involves…drumroll, please…FINANCES!

Crickets chirp.

Wow. Seriously, I know it’s boring, but you didn’t have to be so quiet about it. πŸ˜› I know, you probably thought that I was going to say that it involved diet and eating naturally and going to the farmers market and…yeah, we’ve already been working on all those things, and that path has already been tread by the fam. And guess what! We’re STILL traveling on it. That’s just one of the many paths that we’ll continue upon (much like finding other ways to be greener, among others) that will add excitement to the journey. So hold your horses. πŸ˜‰

I’ve read from many of my blog wanderings that there are tons of folks who have become debt-free. While, again, we don’t need to make a measurable goal out of our resolutions, I ultimately know that it simply wouldn’t be realistic to say, “We’ll be debt-free by the end of 2012.” Between what Dave and I are both paying off, and the incomes that we bring in (our cost of living is low, but so is the local income level), it just isn’t plausible. Heck, we may be able to do the math to determine WHEN we COULD be debt-free…that’d be neat. But, it’s not a goal. I just want to get on top of my darn “what’s coming in, what’s going out” ratios – THEN analyze my “what’s getting saved and for what” junk. And, of course, all of this ties back to our “what do we really, truly need around this joint” numbers. So, when I say finances, it does actually get me more excited than, y’know, crickets chirping. And, hopefully, that’s a good sign!

What else for 2012? A lot of it has to do with what I’m forced to think about every time I look around the house – that being, when this place was built in 1925, folks didn’t have 8+ winter jackets of 5 different pairs of boots (EACH!). Plus, I’m young! I don’t deserve some of the stuff I DO have! It just needs to be toned down (not that I’m not keeping the awesome stuff – I’m truly appreciative, it just needs to find a home within our space). This involves purging clothes. Hopefully sifting through (and getting rid of) anything we simply don’t need. Another garage sale is in the works (our poor, stuffed basement). All that fun stuff. πŸ™‚

Ultimately, if you want to put a label on the year (again, not a resolution, ‘cuz it’s uber-vague…that’s how I like ’em ;-)), I’d call it SIMPLIFY. There are lots of ways to do it. I’ve looked at magazines, seen books, and even noticed a plethora of web sites and blogs that discuss it…then I even saw our friend Cara share this on Facebook! It was like an omen. I want to do a tad more reading up before I decide “Okay, do I throw out 50 things…100…365?” or determine “There’s a better way that doesn’t involve such quantitative results-based actions”. (That’s my one impressive sentence of the year – enjoy it.) But, either way, I hope to write ’bout it, so you’ll get to see all the crap I have. Lucky you. πŸ™‚

So, what about you? Are you making a resolution this year? Are you avoiding them altogether and just living life? Either way, do share – I love it, either way, when folks make up their minds to live in a more positive way. It forces my natural pessimism to take a momentary hike.

***By the way, I just noticed that, while I had completely STARTED a follow-up post actually meant to show the collages (which, yes, I completed in record time and even took pictures of…and, yes, I made more than one) which I never ended up finishing and posting! It’s that whole “insert picture here” thing that sometimes holds me up. My bad, I suck. I’ll be working on that. Sorry!***